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Reasons you might be single

Mar 03, 2012

For people who are single, it can get a little tiresome having our relationship status constantly framed being framed as a problem. Single men are often seen as non-committal . The reality is there are men and women on both sides of the spectrum and in-between torn between this. But these days more women are interested in having a good time and we actually find a lot of men who do want commitment. May be they have had too many bad experiences

Take a chill pill. You might be single for perfectly good reasons. Here are some -

1. You’re looking for the right one, not just any other relationship

There are those people who get married right out of college and are 100 percent sure of that choice and live happily ever after. The rest of us might need to figure out what we’re really looking for before taking that next step. What you actually want may be very different from what you imagine, and it helps to know what’s really out there. Dating is more like a learning experience. You trip, you fall, you make mistakes, and you learn from them. Once you learn a lesson, your point of view shifts, and you start attracting different people with a lot more positive energy.

2. Your  last relationship shattered you

In thius case, OWN that. It’s really important that you don’t jump into anything you’re not ready for before you’ve put in some real time processing that loss. As you need to figure out how to get your confidence back.

3. You’re enjoying dating multiple people

More the merrier. It’s better to be upfront about it, but if that’s what’s working for you and no one else has a problem with it. But never take anything from the past & try putting it in the present. Makes things worse

4. You’re busy

Relationships are time consuming and you’ve got stuff to do. Maybe you’re focusing on your career, or your art, or  your hobbies like playing badminton daily.  Be focused on what you want. If a relationship is just a convenience  then its good you stay away from it.

5. You have things to learn from being single

Often, you’ll hear single folk say that they’re “taking a break from relationships to work on themselves.” It’s become something of a cliche, but there is a lot of truth to it.

If you’re using your single time to get solid in yourself, you’re just going to be that much more solid in a relationship when the time is right. As you are investing in yourself & that’s the best part.

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