Have you always wanted to go on a date, sleep with the woman immediately and never see her again? So that your guilt never finds you vulnerable.
Here are some ways of pulling it off. But for all these the person making the first move should have incredible self-confidence without blinking an eye.
Situation No. 1: On A Date
Let’s say you’re on a date and you like her, but you know you don’t like her enough to be your girlfriend & spend the rest of the days waking up to her nagging.
This is what I’d do: Look directly in her eyes and do not break eye contact. Then say this: “Listen Honey, I’m not looking for a relationship right now. I think you’re wonderful, but I’ve got to tell you that I know I can’t give you the necessary commitment. But I do find you very interesting, attractive and incredibly sexy, and I would love to spend the night with you tonight and show you exactly how I feel right now.”
Do not break eye contact at this moment because this is going to tell whether you’re strong and not afraid, and it’s also going to show her that you’re a guy who’s done this before and you’re going to give her a good time.
She might be caught off-guard, she might stop a little bit as to what hit her, and she might say, “Well I’m not really looking for a one-night stand.” That’s when you look at her again and say this: “I’m honest. I really don’t like to play games at all. I could have lied to you, and I could have told you I wanted a relationship. I could have pursued you like a lot of guys do, just to get into your pants, and then leave you confused when I don’t call. But I have to tell you I am so intrigued by what you feel like. I can’t stop thinking about how you and I would be together, because I know just by looking at you there are a lot of things that I can do to make you feel unbelievable tonight. And I really would like that opportunity to do that right now.”
Once again, do not hesitate. The choice is hers. If she says no, look at her and tell her you understand and respect that. Leave it at that. You might run into her a few weeks later, and she might be in the mood — and you’ve already planted the seed.
Situation No. 2: At The Bar
So, you’re at a bar and you’re looking around. You find the eye of an woman who keeps breaking away from her friends & is at the bar asking for a drink. She’s basically turning her back on the group and checking out different men
What she’s doing is trying to find the guy who she can either get a date with or have a fling with. What you need to do is become very playful with her. Call her out on what she’s doing. Walk by and say, “I know what you’re doing tonight, and I know what you’re looking for. I’ve been watching you. I’ll be back.” Leave a little bit of intrigue. About 10 minutes later, whisper in her ear and say, “What was wrong with that guy? Was that guy not the one for you for the night? I know you’re interviewing tonight; I can see it.”
Situation No. 3 – Holiday
So, you’re on vacation and you want to go home with that incredible story. You want your friends at the gym to be jealous about all your exploits in Goa. So, what do you do? You basically do the exact same thing as in the last situation (at the bar), except this time you go up to a woman and say, “Look, I know what you want. You want a great vacation story. I mean, we’re in Goa right now. It’s beautiful here. I’m sure you want to have great sex on the beach or in your room. Look, we’re adults, we’re both away on vacation, nobody knows. What happens in Goa stays in Goa. Why don’t we go back to my room. I’ve got a bottle of wine and why don’t we explore the feelings that we’re having right now? Why don’t we just take a walk on the beach and see what happens?”
There are two ways that can go from all these situations –
- You get a boner & feel great in a while
- Get a tight slap on your face for being too straight forward (But nothing better than trying your luck, you never know)